Lights off, under the covers. For couples in long term relationships, this can become a little tedious and predictable. As enjoyable as it can be, it can sometimes result in boredom in the bedroom. You don’t deserve boredom, you deserve better sex! So why not take for a spin these 4 fun ways of adding some spice into your bedroom routine.. Or out of the bedroom, as it were!

Damn the Gas Prices!

If you own a pickup truck, or any large vehicle (the more space the better!) you can indulge in what I call ‘Truck Sex’! It is quite simply sex in a truck (or said large vehicle). The appeal comes from the fact that you’re out of the house, things tend to be a little rushed and awkward! It all lends to the excitement!

If you are out on a overnight trip and need to stop, pick a place to stop, and find a rather secluded spot to park up. In these dangerous times most rest areas are very well lit these days! So you’ll need to find the darkest corner But of course, the adventure and risk comes from the fact that there will be people parked around and there is the chance you could be spotted!

There is, of course, the option of oral sex (if you guy is driving) whilst on the road. This Can Be Dangerous however, so DO NOT do it, unless your man is a great and able driver! The distraction can cause accidents and if you are caught by police, rest assured of at least a ticket!

But it is the risk and adrenaline rush that makes this so sexy and exciting. As is public sex in general…

Public sex

Which obviously means having sex in public places. You do not need to be obvious about it, else you may be done for indecency! But to have sex in such a place that people may surround you and yet have no idea you are there is one of the most exciting things to do as a couple. Again, be very careful for the authorities, since it is technically illegal! But the pleasure is worth a certain amount of danger, don’t you think?!

Such places can include a secluded alley perhaps shadowed from the hustle and bustle of life outside, a public bathroom in a restaurant or club, the changing rooms in Wal-Mart, a parking lot or a large park. Anywhere your imagination can take you!

Outdoor sex doesn’t mean you have to have actual intercourse! While sitting in a crowded cinema or restaurant, in a dimly lit booth, side by side, slide you hand up and down you partners leg and you can arouse them with all those people having no idea. If you’re game you can take it even further If you are both sitting close enough to the table, you can even unzip that fly and grab a hold or slide your fingers down. Pleasuring your partner while all the other diners sit unknowingly can be so exciting. If you have a long table cloth which reaches down to the floor, and you are feeling risqu? enough, you can slip under the table when no one is looking and perhaps orally pleasure your partner, seeing if he can keep a straight enough face as you do!

Role play

Either dressing up as the clich?d French Maid or Naughty Nurse can be an entertaining change from your usual sexual routines, but it does not have to end there. Role play can take the form of changing personality for the session in bed - for example, a usually submissive woman takes the reins and dominates her man, or vice versa. Or you assume a new name, pretending you have no idea who (your name) is..!

This can awaken some deep seated fantasies for your man and allow him to somewhat live his dreams of having sex with ‘Vanessa the bar maid’ or ‘Jessica, the cashier girl at Wal-Mart’ - without ever cheating! If you are an open minded spouse and will allow you mate to fantasize about somebody else, you can have a really exciting time. Maybe he would do different things with her that he wouldn’t normally do with you. In finding these things out, if you both enjoy them, you can introduce them into your regular sex lives.

A little bondage with a light touch (or harder if you wish!) can add a naughty twist to your sex lives as well. Without having to bring out the whips and nipple clamps, you can play at handcuffs and blindfolds! This gives each of you a turn at being dominate.

Sex toys

The introduction of sex toys into your sex life can occasionally be a little hesitant at first, for fear of your partner thinking they are not satisfying you enough. But it can also be a new realm for you to both explore yourselves. Vibrating toys can be used together as well as alone. Your man can hold and play with a dildo on you and you can do the same with the likes of a cyber skin vagina. These are useful in each other’s absence as well, if one of you should have to go on a business trip or similar.

However, they also make toys that both of you can enjoy as a couple. Vibrating cock rings and penis extensions can be fun for all. They will vibrate you both as you make love, or the extensions will make him feel larger inside you, while providing him with the same sexual pleasure.

Along with the toys, almost all sex shops sell lubricants and edible gels for purposes such as oral sex or just simply licking each other all over!

So as you can see, there are many way to spice things up and take your love life to a new level if you include some imagination with a dash of daring. The thrill seekers out there will be.. Well, thrilled!